Former crew member reveals what black rings on cruises really mean
- Aline Wobker
Aline Wobker
Lucy Southerton worked on cruise ships for ten years – and made a surprising discovery: A black ring on a finger often has a clear meaning. They reveal more about the passengers than you might think.
Lucy Southerton from Birmingham spent ten years working on cruise ships – and in doing so, she not only got to know the world better, but also her passengers.
In a YouTube video that has now had over a million views, she reports on a curious secret code on the high seas: According to Southerton, black rings and pineapple jewelry serve as identifying marks within the swinger community.
As she explained to the Daily Mail , she first learned about it when a couple wore pineapple necklaces during a massage in the ship's spa. When she commented on the jewelry as "cute," the two laughingly replied, " We're swingers—that's how you'll recognize us ."
According to Southerton, although this code isn't officially recognized by shipping companies, it's well-known within the swinger scene. However, she warns against jumping to conclusions: A black ring on the right hand could simply be a fashion statement.
As he continued talking with the couple, Southerton learned more terms and symbols:
- “Unicorn”: A woman traveling alone who is open to sexual contact with a couple – considered rare and desirable in the scene.
- “Rhino”: A man traveling alone who is open to sexual encounters with couples or individuals.
- “Mermaid”: A married woman who seeks sexual contact with other couples without her partner.
- “Rainbow”: Represents people who are open to sexual contact with all genders and constellations.
Signs like black rings or pineapple jewelry point to the swinger scene. But what exactly happens in a swingers club? A swingers club is a place where people can freely express themselves sexually – without pressure, but in a protected environment. The term "swinger" is derived from English and describes people who are open to partner swapping or group experiences. The motto of many clubs is: "Anything goes, nothing is necessary."
Unlike sauna clubs, there are no prostitutes there. Visitors pay admission, not for sexual services. Those who come decide for themselves whether to actively participate or simply watch. Couples and singles are equally welcome – clear rules and mutual respect are paramount.
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